Im 20 dating a 30 year old woman
Some circles debate that the 7 should be a 5. You seem to think that she likes you, but do you like her? But it's not like you're 16 and she's Dec 18, Messages: If she doesn't know, I suggest you tell her.
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Would like a 30 year old woman date a 19 or 20 year old guy
Unless said women looks substantially older than 31 or you look substantially younger than 26, your age difference is unlikely to be identifiable by the general public that's making the rather generous assumption that anyone else is going to care. I tried to not let it bother me but it did. In retrospect I understand why both of those relationships didn't work out, but on the other hand, both were good for me in their own way and I learned about myself.
I think there can be issues when people are dating people because of a big age gap. Throughout my entire love life -- or whatever you want to call what has been 23 years of going through men, some for longer than others -- I have never so much as lusted after any guy who is younger than I am.
Granted, I've dated people where there was a MUCH bigger age difference than this, so maybe my perspective is slightly different to other people's.
Do not let people like this drag you down to their level. Dating someone your im 20 datings a 30 year old woman don't approve of while you live with them, and that person also being a coworker is a horrible idea.
They have been together for 37 years and are happy by all accounts.
There's a reason everyone always says to stay out of office place romances. If a girl is 16 and the guy is 26, that's clearly statuatory rape since she is under 18 whether she's consenting or not. I know a few of these women and most of them have serious issues one way or another, which is why they date younger guys.
You will be proud to have her at your side. I think commenters above have already covered the sadness and wrongness of the myth that there is something wrong or less-desirable about "older women. Depends on the couple, honestly But your sister sounds prepared for that.
It's not like there's a 60 year difference. Which leads me to… 3. She'd have a lot of support from friends and roommates who are learning all this stuff at the same time.
That seems like bad news waiting to happen. May 24, Messages: I don't see any huge red flags but think there's maybe an orange one for caution. Anyone looking to play games should move on to someone more gullible.